Blog 7: Reading RI Laws and Policies & Woke Read Alouds: They, She, He Easy and ABC
Larissa Guido Swenson
FNED 546 - Summer 2023
Dr. Lesley Bogad
Blog 7: READ: RI Laws and Policies
WATCH: Woke Read Alouds: They, She, He Easy as ABC
(video Analysis)
3 Quotes & Connections
After watching the video where kindergarten teacher Ki reads the book “They, She, He Easy as ABC” by Matthew Sg and Maya Christina Gonzalez, I took away three quotes that caught my attention which I would like to start my writing with one of them: “Instead of calling them by their pronouns he or she or they or z or tree, you can call them by their name. That is so important, sometimes if you forget or you don’t know someone’s pronouns it’s your best bet to ask them their name and then call them their name”.
At first glance, these updates seem strange. Many questions come to my mind on the subject: are they really necessary? Who is proposing these changes? For what? Will I have to teach this form to my class? Where can I find out about this? To be on the safe side, educating myself on my state Guidance for Rhode Island Schools on Transgender and Gender and non Confirming Students and recognizing when I make a mistake until I am able to refer to people by their preferred pronouns comes out naturally.
Until then, I may feel embarrassed several times, but as Ki mentions on the video: “It’s ok to be embarrassed. Sometimes we feel embarrassed when we make mistakes. The most important thing is that we love ourselves enough to say when we’ve made a mistake. Because we can do that, we give other people who may have heard when we made the mistake space and time to heal from that mistake”.
Where would non-binary people fit in, the ones who do not identify with either the masculine or the feminine gender? It seems to me then the idea of non-binary language, therefore, would not be to neutralize genders, but to bring a more inclusive language, meeting a demand for representativeness of the LGTBQIA2S+ community.
Although these are issues related to identity and diversity, it is worth remembering that gender and sexuality are different things. As discussed in class, gender identity refers to whether or not a person identifies with the sex (male or female) assigned to them at birth. When she identifies, she is cisgender (or “cis”). When not, she is transgender (“trans”). Non-binary people can have any sexual orientation, which refers to sexual or affective attraction towards other people (homosexual, bisexual, asexual, etc).
It may feel strange, it can be challenging to get used to the new norms of pronouns, but Ki says:
Point to share in class: “Know, understand, appreciate, learn, accept”, which tells me these norms are not about how we feel, but how he, she, they, tree feel.
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